Harold O'Kelley


As a retired criminal investigator I try to speak plainly and to the point so while my below analysis is blunt, I do not seek to be rude and if I appear to be I apologize.  I have a great deal of respect and gratitude for the person and the work of Harold O'Kelley and he spent his time and money to add to our knowledge about our ancestors and thanks to him a great deal of our ancestry has been preserved for all time but more importantly he gave us a different thought about our earlier ancestors.  Given the resources available to Harold one has to acknowledge the amount of effort, time, and money invested for what was probably a very minor financial return but it is certain he did not do it for money.  He did it to express his love of his ancestors and his fath.   Harold was not as fortunate as I because a great deal of my information came to me in a computer file from my aunt Kathleen and from her very large starting point much of what I have discovered about our family I have found from the comfort of my easy chair with my laptop.  I have no doubt that if DNA science has been known and affordable at the time Harold prepared this book, he would have followed my path to narrow the search.  Thanks to DNA I know that our family descended from the Ui Ceallaigh of Ui Maine Ireland so I don't have to look at the Scots Irish and wonder, my only wonder is what Harold might have further accomplished if he had known the information that has become available to me.  Science has made my work much easier and more precise but I still have to analyze the data and do additional research to understand what the data might be telling me, that didn't come to me with the result of my DNA, it has taken me a great many hours of reading and reading again the same material to understand the customs of the Irish and how those customs influenced our family and I am just as certain that some new science will be discovered in our future and some new generation of O'Kelley will take up where I have left off and probably prove me wrong in many of my conclusions so nothing that I record should be taken as condemnation of any researcher who came before me.  In the end all our goals are the same; we are attempting to learn as much as possible about our ancestors, who they were and from where they came.   It is in this light that I make my assessments of my opinion about the mentioned author's work.  My only purpose with this page is to make readers aware that some (not all) of the Harold's work may not be invalid as indicated by the result of my DNA testing and they should consider this as they do their research. 



Harold O'Kelley - Four Families through Georgia (1985)


Thanks to the generosity of Shannon, a daughter, I have the pleasure of reading this book about her O'Kelley line of our family in its entirety.  This very large red covered volume is very impression, a great deal of time and resources were invested and at the time Harold O'Kelley wrote his book, the data was not on line, his resources were available only by shoe leather and travel but when I began my journey in the spring of 2009 I had Google Books  to guide me as I began my "cold case" investigation of our ancestors.  To read Dr John O'Donovan's 1843 Tribes and Customs of Hy-Many, I had only to do a Google search and begin reading.  My readers only have to click on the above link to do the same.  Harold quotes Alethea Jane Macon a great deal, he had her previous work to aid his investigation so he started at a point greater than she but given Macon provides no evidence to support most of her claims about our early family, her book may have been more hindrance than help because it seems to have directed Harold's research in a predefined way.  That was not Alethea Jane Macon's fault that Harold accepted Macon's claim that Thomas was our ancestor's name anymore than it is Harold O'Kelley's fault that some descendant today replicates William of Caroline Co as our ancestor.  In both author's defense I have years of training and experience in tracking people who are difficult to locate and analyzing the limited records they create as they lived so it must be expected that I might see something differently than Harold and we come to a different conclusions when we read the same data.  The fact that I disagree with some of his conclusions should not be taken as a criticism of a man who is clearly accomplished in his own right.  My training makes me unhampered by religion or the influence of my family, I don't really care if our ancestors were Catholic, Protestant, Methodist, Baptists, or had no religion my only interest in my ancestor's religion is in how it might aid in unlocking data about them.  In Harold O'Kelley's book the religious overtones are obvious and understandable and in some cases I believe they have influenced his research taking him in a desired direction.  He was Baptist so he believed his ancestors were also Baptist and that appears to have limited the scope of his research.  I don't disagree with his data, but I do have reservations about some of his conclusions based upon his data just as surely as some will disagree with my conclusions about my data.  Harold seems to believe that our shared first grandfather who came to America would act and think the way we might act or think and that could not be further from the truth.  We know Harold would not have traded a daughter for a cow but that is the life our shared grandfather lived even at that late date.  In 1750 our ancestors believed it was Christian to own and work slaves and husbands were selected for daughters by their father in what was most often a financial transaction.  In his book Harold says our ancestor and Ms Dean met and married in King and Queen County but it is far more likely that MS Dean was sent for from Ireland and our ancestor and she married as an arranged marriage the way most marriages were conducted in that time and place.  It was very unlikely this was a marriage of love and more likely it was a business transaction between the father of the bride and the groom and it is even possible that our ancestor bought Ms Dean from a slave auction block as a great many wifes were bought, it was a different world.  In the "The Short History of Ireland" by Dr Johnathan Bardon  there are many documentations about how hard these times were in Ireland and how to avoid starvation sometimes our ancestors would raise their recently dead and eat them or even eat their living children and the most recent occurrence was in 1740 and 1741 which was during our ancestor's lifetime and 212 years before I was born so the fact that our ancestor may have had such views should not be judgment of him, that is the life he was born into.  I doubt our ancestor's experiences would be something that Harold would have easily accepted but that was how it was.  Our Ancestor's customs, morals, and religion were far different than any modern O'Kelley embraces today so when Harold speaks of our share ancestor almost as if he was a kindred sprit I believe it gives descendents a false view of who or what our ancestors really were in that time.  Our ancestor was born into a land that was in occupation by a foreign power who was of a different religion than his grandfather embraced and it is likely a great number of his family had been murdered by the occupiers while working in fields they didn't even own or our ancestor murdered the wives and children of the foreigners in Ireland so I can not stress just how different the world was during our ancestor's time.

Because our ancestor appears in America as a protestant it is assumed he was Scots Irish and not native Irish and having done the research before my DNA test I can understand how this conclusion was determined. To make the matter clear to my reader, the Scots Irish were protestant settlers who migrated from either England or Scotland to lands in mostly Northern Ireland that had been cleared of the native Irish by the force via  King James of the King James Bible fame.   This set up a 400 year war between Catholics and Protestants that continues today.  DNA confirms my uncle John and I descend from Native Irish and are related to the Hy-Many line of O'Kellys that Dr. John O'Donovan documents in his 1843 book "The Tribes and Customs of Ui Maine commonly called O'Kelly Country".  Hy-Many is an area of about 1000 sq miles in Co Roscommon and Galway ruled over by the O'Kelly Kings.  We are not Scots Irish and Dr O'Donovan gives an explanation as to how some land owning native Gentry Irish Catholic O'Kelleys became protestant, how four of the ruling native Gentry Irish O'Kelleys came to drop the O from their name, spell it in an English spelling and embrace the protestant faith all characteristics found in our ancestors living in Mecklenburg Co VA, they are protestant and they are Kelly. 

Harold tells us that according to his friend the spelling of our name with or without the second "e" is meaningless but that ignores the the history of the English language where early Gaelic to English translations had many extra letters and later translations had less.  I believe the double "e" spelling may tell us that we are of a line that used an English translation early thus may have descended from one of the four Gentry lines Dr. O'Donovan lists that agreed to raise their children in English ways because in 1585 the English spelling of our name would have likely have been "Kelley". Let me be clear our ancestors did not drop the O and become protestant because they had a choice, they were forced to do it or loose their land and their lives.   What we do know from the notes of Col Charles O'Kelleys 1692 book Macariae Excidium is on page 163 we find both double "e" and single "e" spellings so there was a meaning to the double "e" spelling that has become lost in time.  To be clear, the poor common Irish Catholic had no reason to use an English spelling of their name, most spoke Gaelic and fi they could write they used Ó Ceallaigh until about 1850 so if our ancestor arrived in Virginia at the time he did and with the double "e" spelling and protestant religion, he was of the landed Gentry O'Kelleys otherwise he would have been forced here as a white slave and catholic and would have probably been worked to death.

I have considerable doubts that our ancestor met and married Miss Dean in America.  Women were in short supply so I suspect it is far more likely that  our ancestor was of the Mac GilliKelly and she was of the Dean(e) family of English descent who were one of the 14 tribes of Galway opening up a very real and likely possibility that she was born in Ireland and our ancestor and Miss Dean were of an arranged marriage in Galway before coming to America.  I believe there can be no doubt that the name Benjamin that appears in our family came from the most popular Benjamin Franklin, we do not find a Benjamin Dean O'Kelley like we find with Thomas Dean, Francis Dean and Charles Dean O'Kelley, names that I am certain originates from Miss Dean's Galway family, certainly one of these names was her father.  I am certain our ancestors left us the clues and it just amazes me that so many can not see them in plain sight.  

The religious strife that caused so many deaths all over Europe during the reformation period is not well stated as Harold makes it sound like the protestant movement was being readily accepted with open arms but the cold hard truth was people were being forced at the point of the sword to embrace the protestant faith and a great many families who refused were wiped out during this time and in some of the most cruel ways.  Even King Henry VIII's friend, Sir Thomas More, was beheaded and his family had their estate and possessions seized for his failing to take the required oath that the King was the head of the church the cornerstone of the protestant movement.  Even today protestants cling to the King James Bible not knowing the real reason why but in those days it was for survival.  Reformation was always about whose pocket the tithes went into.   For the most part the Irish like many others just wanted to be left in peace except when they were the ones doing the raiding and plundering but the protestants saw fortune and plunder in Ireland so for more than three centuries great sins were committed by both sides as almost 1/2 of the native Irish were wiped from the face of our earth in some of the most tortured methods and of course in the name of Jesus Christ.   There are many accounts of Irish men, women, and children being burned alive or hung by the neck until near death then having their bowels ripped open and burned before their eyes then having their still beating heart ripped out and also burned.  Now dead the protestant English would behead their bodies and cut their bodies into quarters and send them as trophies to other protestants to be put on display and they would state that all of this was ordained by God.  I am not Catholic but I also do not understand how any protestant today could pretend these sins did not happen and it is true the Irish also engaged in murdering entire protestant families so as a researcher I do not take sides and seek only to report this was much more complicated than reported in Harold's book.  There was considerable effort to convert the Irish and when that failed they were killed.  Queen Elizabeth's agreement with four ruling O'Kelleys required conversion and when all else failed, the English parliament passed the penal laws in the first quarter of 1700 and during a time our ancestor was born and it was  designed to force the Irish to become protestant or loose their land.  The so called protestant reformation was always about politics and money, it was about making the King of England the head of the church and the Irish state something the native Irish would not accept and when the bill came due for the centuries of war, the English protestant paid for their war by killing the Irish and taking their land and wealth.  The protestant reformation was always about diverting the flow of money from the churches in England and Ireland that was going to Rome and into the pockets of the Pope and put it in the pockets of the English King and new protestant clergy.  It was and always is about money.  It really was that simple.  When King James in the early 1600s set out to kill, displace or enslave the native Irish some being our ancestors and plant Scots and English in Ireland in their place and force his King James Bible upon the world he created a fire storm so great that it is likely that almost 500 years later it influenced Harold not to go into Northern Ireland during his visit to Ireland.  I am not saying that how Harold reports this was intentional incorrect only t doesn't tell the full story so I seek to make the reader aware of the true difficulty our ancestor was born into.

Harold on page 189 states, "It is believed that my earliest known ancestor, Thomas O'Kelley, lived in Virginia".  Like J Fred O'Kelly and  Alethea Jane Macon Harold provides no source to backup the belief that our ancestor was named Thomas.  I also do not find a source for his belief that Thomas, George, William, Charles, Benjamin and Francis were the sons born to this family and we are told that Benjamin of NC is one of their sons and information from the  pension application of that Benjamin born in 1761 is used to conclude our family came from King and Queen Co and this takes Harold to Caroline Co VA where he concludes William Kelley of that county is the father ofr our ancestor.  Everything depends on that pension application something only DNA testing will resolve so I encourage a descendant of Benjamin to test. 

After almost two years of investigation I am of the opinion that Alethea Jane Macon without malice constructed the couple Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean and Dr Francis C O'Kelley may be responsible for their six sons and Harold O'Kelley is the person who added William O'Kelley of Caroline Co Virginia to this fictional family which is now pretty much set in stone for most descendants.  What we can proven from records is Charles and Francis lived and married sisters in Mecklenburg Co VA as Kelleys before moving to Georgia where they and their descendants appear as O'Kelley.  There are a great many record to support this and during this time the only Kelley, Kelly, O'Kelley, or O'Kelly that appears in any Mecklenburg Census is William Kelley who has ten others living with him in 1782 which is exactly how the native Irish lived, all in the same home with their eldest male head of the household, so I am certain that Charles and his wife and two children and Francis are five of the ten living with their father William.  Mecklenburg as their home is proven by a single early bible record. Thomas is living in Granville NC and Benjamin born in 1761 is living in Warren Co NC during this time, proof is found in land records, tax records, marriage records and census records.  What can not be proven is that Thomas of Granville NC  and Benjamin of Warren Co NC are of the same family, that they are brothers  let alone brothers of the Mecklenburg Kelleys.  In his pension application Benjamin makes the claim that his brother served with him and he was deceased but none of the Mecklenburg Kelleys or Thomas of Granville Co NC are on record as serving in the units that Benjamin served so there is more against Benjamin being of our family than is.  This is where the evidence trail stops, no one , not J Fred O'Kelly, not Alethea Jane Macon, nor Harold O'Kelley provides a single bit of proof beyond this that the family of Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean and their sons Thomas, George, William, Charles Benjamin, and Francis is correct.  I have spoken with the son of Kate O'Kelley, and he read from her bible, I have communicated with two of Kate's grand nieces and no one knows the source for Macon's claim that the names of the six sons came from the family of Francis. 

Harold's body of work may be more important for what he is unable to prove than what he could prove.  I don't think J Fred O'Kelly or Alethea Jane Macon did much research, I think they mostly took what others told them and published it.  Harold  clearly conducted an investigation, he hired professional researchers to aid him and he used his training and education to try to make sense of it all and in the end, very little was found and that too is important because it tells us what doesn't exist. No records were found to  to prove Thomas Kelley of Granville NC appears any where but in North Caroline and Georgia opening up a very real possibility that he was the Thomas O'Kelley born in Ireland anc came to America.   He presents his reader with the possibility that Elizabeth Wyers was previously married but I present my reader with the possibility that both Thomas and Elizabeth were previously married as we have three US Census for Francis the first born son of Thomas that puts his birth year six years before the marriage of Thomas and Elizabeth and in NC not Virginia.  I propose there are two Elizabeth Deans, they could be cousins or aunt and niece and one married William Kelley of Mecklenburg and was the mother of Charles and Francis and the other married Thomas Kelley of Granville NC and she was the mother of Francis born in 1779 in NC and she died and Thomas secondly married Elizabeth Wyers.  There is some DNA evidence to suggest this could be true.

There is a  golden nuggets for me found in Harold's book and it  concerns the the source of Alethea Jane Macon's best evidence claim that Thomas was the name of our ancestor and that leads me to the 1938 book by John Gwathney titled "Historical Register of Virginians in the Revolution" which records the service of Lt William D O'Kelly and Lt Thomas D O'Kelly.  The DAR gives this source as their confirmation source for my grandfather Charles serving in the 8th Virginia.  Harold tracked Lt Thomas D to its source and learned and reported that Lt Thomas D was a mistake, that he was Lt William D O'Kelly.  I think Harold unknowingly discovered Macon's" best evidence".  

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